Have you been naughty and need a spanking?
Been nice and still need a spanking?

Come to the
Kinky Xmas Bazaar
!

For more information
email xmas@activelyhostile.com
or call
405-436-2446
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Schedule of Events

Note: Some events do require a membership for participation. Weekend memberships are available online and both daily and weekend memberships will be available at the Bazaar. You must be 18 or older to attend the Kinky Xmas Bazaar. ID and signed waiver are required.

Friday, Dec. 4th:

5pm-9pm            Vendor Space open

6pm-6:45pm       BDSM 101 w/ Ms. Toy and James
                            
Newcomers, this one's for you. Learn the basics about BDSM                              terminology, toys, and etiquette.

7pm-9pm            Munch!!!
                            Join us for dinner to kickoff the Bazaar. The all-inclusive
                            buffet is $11 (tax/tip included) for our attendees.
                            Entertainment will be provided by Natana-suta Bellydance.

9pm-2am            Party Time!!!
                            The Friday night members-only play party will feature a mosh
                            pit for the pups from 9pm-10pm and will have multiple play
                            stations for you to be nicely naughty. (Membership req'd)


Saturday, Dec. 5th:

11am-7pm          
Vendor Space open

12:30pm-1:45pm Electricity: Eroticism and Torture- Spark!!  Zap!!  Sizzle!!
                              w / Steve
                                     Come to Steve's class today to learn a little more about
                              electrical play. Typical equipment used for electrical play is
                              tens units & violet wands or on a more extreme note, stun
                              guns, dog collars and cattle prods. We will be covering some
                              of the basic things you can do with these implements, from
                              eroticism to torture. Safety and how to negotiate this type of
                              play will also be covered.

2pm-3:15pm          BDSM 101 w/ David T., Ms. Toy, and Sam
                             A newcomer's "orientation" class covering the basics of BDSM
                             terminology, toys, and etiquette. Great for anyone new to
                             "What it is that we do."

2pm-3:15pm         Titleholders' Roundtable w/ TJ, Boss James, and slave Cathy
                             Join this amazing group of past and current Titleholders for a
                             frank discussion of what it takes and what it means to be a
                             Leather Titleholder.

3:30pm-4:45pm    Playing Without Toys w/ James
                             We all enjoy wheeling in our trunk full of toys into our private
                             dungeon in order to bend reality for our willing victim. But
                             what if you don't have the privacy, dungeon, time, or toys?
                             Whenever playing with toys is not an option there are plenty  
                             of other options, and this class will explore some of them.
                             Techniques will be demonstrated that will allow you to
                             spontaneously and discreetly play when you want to. The
                             same techniques can also enhance your play involving toys.
                             (Membership req'd)

5pm-6:15pm         Chompers w/ Ms. Toy
                             This is a 101 level course that explores the art of biting.  It
                             provides safety information and introduces techniques for
                             getting most out of the bite, both sensuously and seriously. 
                             Explore the taboos and mysteries of the bite in this dynamic
                             and fun class.  Good for beginners and experienced players
                             alike.

5pm-6:15pm         Puppy Play (and a Mosh Pit) w/ Angel
                             A pup's-eye view of animal play. We'll cover the basics of
                             safety, equipment, and animal headspace. After the 
                             discussion, the mats will come out for a Mosh Pit with our
                             pups and Trainers. (Membership req'd)

6:30pm-7:45pm    Whip Cracking 101 w/ Mason
                             A hands-on seminar covering safety, responsibility, and the
                             three most common whip cracks used during a scene.  You
                             will learn the fundamentals of these three cracks and with the
                             aid of one-on-one training, the participants should be able to
                             perform at least two of the cracks by the end of the class.
                             (Membership req'd)

9pm-2am              Party Time, take two!!!

                             You've filled your toy bag, hung a slave by the chimney with
                             care, now it's time to throw on the stockings and try out all the
                             naughty new ideas you've picked up through the weekend. A
                             whip station with a nearly 30'x20' lane will be available for the
                             singletail "crack addicts" in attendance. (Membership req'd)


A heartfelt "Thank You!" to our 2009 presenters. This event wouldn't work without your generous offers of time and knowledge.

Ms Toy is the a 20+-year lifestyle veteran. She has lived in Seattle, Las Vegas, and now resides in Oklahoma. She founded the Las Vegas Women's Welcoming Committee, has taught Safety & Etiquette, Signal Whip, Mindfuck; Tactical S&M, and is currently teaching a course called "Chompers" that is a 101 level course on biting.  She teaches all over the country, and is a talented and sadistic Domme with a very bent view of life.  She was published in "The Dominant's View twice in 2006.  She co-wrote an article on Primal Energy in play with Philip the Foole.  Ms Toy is the publishing editor for the NLA-I LINK and was named NLA-I Woman of the Year – 2009.  She loves to play on the edge, is always interested in playing with new people and old friends.  She loves someone to volunteer to be her toy for the night and adores a relaxing body and foot massage after play.  Email her at mstoy@toystoysonline.com.

James is a kink enthusiast who has been involved in the lifestyle and local communities for 15 years. He is a Dominant and Top who believes that communication, honor, and integrity in all aspects of life are essential. His scening interests include the usual suspects with emphasis on using the human mind and body. He very much enjoys sharing his knowledge with anybody that wants to learn.

Steve is an adrenaline junky who has been involved in the BDSM and Leather Community for about 6 years. He is a Dominant, a sadist and an all around evil fuck! He is a member of NLA-OKC and the Tulsa Dungeon Society where he is an active member in both communities. He has attended Tribal Fire for the past 4 years, SWLF and Beyond Vanilla this past year. His special interests include whips, canes, electricity, cutting & blood play, deep impact play, and anything else considered "edgy". Steve learned to crack whips from some very reputable mentors in the community and has self taught on some others. He enjoys teaching and sharing his knowledge on whips and other SM techniques.

David A. Templeton is a former Co-Chair of NLA-OKC; current NLA-OKC Treasurer; Arts & Entertainment Coordinator for NLA-OKC's Tribal Fire; Full-time Student; Part-time Layout Artist; and grievously-underpaid Graphic Designer.

Boss James has been in the lifestyle for more than 20 years and was an owned submissive for sixteen before loosing his life partner to cancer then found his life in chaos, which resulted in severe depression and eating disorders that forced his weight up to life threatening levels.  A warning light went on for James when he was accused of trying to commit suicide and James has struggled to regain a sane footing in his world.  Boss James is a now much slimmer dynamic part of the lifestyle community and has embraced the leather lifestyle. He is a multiple leather title-holder.  He was Mr. Tulsa Eagle 2005, Mr. Tulsa Leather 2006, and Oklahoma Mr. Leather in October 2007.  He is a rare gem in the leather community and an inspiration to us all.  Email him at james@toystoysonline.com.
 
Slave Cathy is South Central Leather Woman 2009. She is collared to Master Malik. She and Malik have been together 7ish years and shared the Master/slave dynamic for the past 6 years. She is honored to carry the titles of Ms Great Plains Olympus Leather 2006 and Southwest slave 2008. Slave Cathy has presented at Twisted Temptations, Banter, AHS, RSVP, Spanksgiving, GWNN, Pandemonium, Beyond Vanilla, Rio Grande Leather, GLLA, South Plains Leather, Pain on the Plains and South West Leather Conference. She is also co-owner of the Mr and Ms Great Plains Olympus Leather Contest, The Alternative Lifestyle Food Pantry whose motto is "Taking Care of Our Own", Xpressions Annual Event,  Xpressions Lifestyle Community Facility and one human donkey named "cabby". Slave Cathy is a member of T.U.L.S.A and Tulsa Dungeon Society of Tulsa, Oklahoma. She is also a member of RSVP in Baton Rouge, La. and TTK in Wichita, Ks.
 
Mason Alexander has been involved in the Leather/BDSM lifestyle for about 10 years.  He is a member of NLA-OKC where he has served as the Sergeant at Arms and the Education Director.  He has also served his community as Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2005.  Mason has been the head Dungeon Master for Tribal Fire since it’s beginning. He is a sadist and a Top and prides himself on being an EOPD (equal opportunity pain distributor).

 

Membership to the Kinky Xmas Bazaar includes advanced classes and workshops, as well as our nightly play parties! Get your weekend membership now!


Weekend Memberships $20/ea




 


 

Demos, Workshops, and Events

Friday, Dec. 4th

Vendors Open 5pm-9pm
 
6pm-6:45pm
BDSM 101


7pm-9pm
MUNCH!
Entertainment by Natana-suta Bellydance

9pm-2am
Play Party
Mosh Pit 9pm-10pm
(Membership Req'd)


Saturday, Dec. 5th

Vendors Open 11am-7pm

12:30pm - 1:45pm
Electricity: Eroticism and Torture

2pm-3:15pm
BDSM 101

2pm-3:15pm
Titleholders' Roundtable

3:30pm-4:45pm
Playing Without Toys
(membership req'd)

5pm-6:15pm
Chompers

5pm-6:15pm
Puppy Play and Mosh Pit
(membership req'd)

6:30pm-7:45pm
Whip Cracking 101
(membership req'd)

9pm-2am
Play Party
(membership req'd)


Hotel Info

Our host hotel is the Four Points by Sheraton Oklahoma City Airport at 6300 East Terminal Drive, OKC, OK 73159

Call (405)681-3500 for reservations.

Rooms start at$70/night for singles and doubles!

Use group code "Hostility" to book your room now. ----


Our 2009 Sponsors:

NLA-OKC    J-Darling.com

Dominion OKC

PrysmCreations.com

TheKinkShop.com

The Medicine Chest



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Kommando Kilts

Passion Parties by Debi

Foxy Roxy and Guy

Power Play

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